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College Students and Stress
by Dr. Gregory Hall
Bentley College
Stress is a physical and psychological reaction to issues and events
emanating from one's environment. Perceived obstacles to goal achievement,
environmental change, life challenges and periods of significant transition
are common stress triggers for college students. All of us experience
stress on a regular basis. Most of this stress is actually positive serving
to motivate us. However, like most things in excess, too much stress is
negative.
Excessive stress usually develops over a period of time and often goes
unnoticed by the individual until a physical or emotional toll has
been exacted. One can learn to manage and maintain stress at relatively
healthy levels. The onset of unhealthy stress is similar to blowing air
into a balloon. If you blow and blow more air into the balloon without any
controlled outlet, eventually the balloon explodes in an unpredictable and
destructive fashion. However, if you blow air in, stopping periodically
to let some air out, and blowing more air in, you can repeat the process
indefinitely without any negative consequences. Managing stress is a
similar process. Throughout life you will experience stress. Learning to
recognize the physical and psychological warning signs of stress is the key.
Warning Signs
- Changes in sleep patterns; taking longer to fall asleep; waking up tired
and not well rested
- Changes in eating patterns
- More frequent headaches than is normal for you
- Shorter temper than is normal for you
- Recurring colds and minor illness
- Frequent muscle ache and/or tightness
- More disorganized than normal for you
- Increased difficulty in task completion
- A greater sense of persistent time pressure
- Increased generalized frustration and anger
If this list seems like it describes you, seek some assistance at your
campus counseling center. A counselor can assist you in reducing an
unhealthy level of stress.
Proactive Stress Management
Mind and body are integrated as can be seen with the issue of stress. It is no
secret that psychological stress and physical illness are related. Stress
triggers physiological and chemical (hormones) changes in the body. Physical
illness is commonly accompanied with increase stress. Thus, as we learn to
manage stress we must address physical as well as psychological factors. As you
consider the following tips, keep in mind that maintaining balance between your
intellectual, social and personal development is the key to a well adjusted
college experience.
- Add a physical workout to your schedule at least every other day. One does
not need to be gifted athletically to accomplish this. You can jog, power
walk, use stepper, rowing or biking machines, swim or any other form of
exercise. Do not see this as 'recreational time' that can be blown off.
Physical activity is a great way to insure that life's minor stresses do not
build.
- Set both long term (this semester or this year) and short term (this
day or this week) goals. Write them down. Make them part of your time
management schedule.
- Manage your time. Develop a schedule that provides for academic, social
and physical time. Follow the schedule! Seek the help of an advisor in
developing better time management skills.
- Each day find twenty minutes of 'alone time' to relax. Take a walk, write
in a journal or meditate.
- Don't sweat the small stuff...always ask yourself if the issue at hand is
worth getting upset about. If it isn't affecting your goal achievement, it may
not be worth fretting over.
- Humor and positive thinking are important tools in stress management.
- Most importantly, communicate! Talking to a person who you trust be they
a friend, roommate, family member, professor, significant other or co-worker
about issues of concern is helpful. We all need someone to listen.
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