Thirteen Quick Tips To Enhance Your College Experience
By Richard Boyum
University Of Wisconsin-Eau Claire Counseling Services
College is a unique experience on the planet.
Relatively few individuals get to experience this unique opportunity.
There is probably no period in your life where you have more
choices, more free time and as wide a range of activities.
With this period of time also comes high levels of responsibility.
There is probably no period in your life where more significant
changes will occur than in any other single five-year period.
There are a few quick and simple things you can do to enhance
the quality of this time and experience called college. Spend
a little time reading through this list and work on implementing
one or more of these ideas:
- Be sure to stick with the basics. These
include eating a balanced diet, at least most of the time.
You are smart enough to know what the basic food groups
are and how you should eat. It is up to you to take responsibility
to do that. It is much too easy to garbage up on fast food
rather than take the time to eat some of the good, slow
food that you need to keep yourself at a level of health
that allows you to be a maximized performer.
In addition, the basics involve getting appropriate rest.
Research indicates that the average college student needs
7 to 8 ½ hours of sleep to max out the use of their
skills. It is important to try, on most school nights, to
get to bed at about the same time and get up at the same
time. Students often make the mistake of trying to set and
reset their biological clocks by the first class they have.
This can create a constant state of jet lag. Even on weekends
it is important not to stretch your time schedule too much.
You spend too many days early in the week trying to get
back into a healthy sleep cycle. Many feelings of fatigue
are really a function of irregular sleep patterns. Research
shows that short naps in the afternoon or early evening
can enhance your performance but they have to be paired
with regular and appropriately long night sleeps. In a related
issue, if you work, try to limit your job time to less than
20 hours per week.
The last piece of basics is related to exercise. As a college
student you know that structure determines function. We
have large muscle groups that need to be used on a regular
basis. A lot of college work is head work. You need to be
able to, on a regular basis, use your body to be a peak
performer. Exercise can be solitary or done with friends,
but it needs to involve both cardiovascular activity and
the use of your large muscle groups. Exercise at least three
times a week for an hour. Daily is fine too. Some exercise
can be intense and some can be as relaxing as a semi-brisk
walk with a friend. Again, research says that this basic
skill is important to doing well.
- Minimize or eliminate the use of alcohol
as a drug. When utilizing alcohol, do so as a beverage to
enhance a social event or a meal. Consider as often as possible
alcohol-free days. The problem with alcohol used to the
level of intoxication is that it not only destroys brain
cells, but it takes your body too long to recuperate. It
is your responsibility to make alcohol decisions sensibly.
Your university counseling service has information that
might help you make more responsible choices regarding this
drug.
- Almost all college students live with someone
else. This may involve a single roommate in a residence
hall or a number of people in an off campus residence. It
is important to set aside some time to deal with the kinds
of issues that people need to deal with when living in close
proximity with each other. Consider once a week setting
aside at least 30 minutes to an hour for a roommate and/or
housemates meeting. Issues involving noise, cleaning the
room, what is going right or what is going wrong, will help
keep the relationships smooth and positive. You can nip
problems in the bud before they get out of hand and become
major distractions. In addition, you begin to respect and
appreciate some of the individual differences that can occur
when people are functioning in a high stress environment
such as the university.
- A cluttered living environment usually relates
to a cluttered mind. Take some time once a week to clean
and reorganize your living space. When things are kept in
order, people just seem to work more efficiently and more
effectively. It is a disciplined activity that seems to
help people manage their time and their life more effectively.
It is also just more comfortable to be in an environment
that is neat and in some ways ordered.
- Woody Allen once said that one of the most
important things in life is to show up. A significant part
of university structure is about classes and what occurs
there. This may sound trite but GO TO CLASS. Some classes
are boring, some professors are boring, some classes are
hard, some classes are at a time that you don't particularly
like. In some ways this list is endless but if you need
this class and it is part of your degree program, the most
important thing you need to do is to show up. By showing
up you demonstrate your commitment to your goals of staying
in and finishing college. Once you are there you might as
well take notes, read the material and know when tests and
quizzes are going to take place. Research on college students
indicates that higher class attendance correlates with higher
grades, earlier completion of degrees and simply staying
at the university. . . . so, GO TO CLASS!
- The old rule of thumb of two hours of study
for every hour in class is a good one. It has also been
proven that people tend to get the most work done when they
do the subject they like least first and use as a reward
the subjects that they like the most. If you are having
difficulty in a course, see if you can find a tutor or help
from someone who understands the content material. Many
courses at the university have structured, tutored experience
to help individuals who are having difficulty in any given
class. Chart out your week and set aside specific study
times. Research shows that using early morning hours before
or in-between classes sufficiently increases the amount
of studying that students do. In addition, find at least
one subject area to challenge yourself in, to do a little
bit of extra reading or study. Consider using current events
as a way of relating material to course content.
- Often students say there is nothing to do
on campus. What this really is about is that many times,
as creatures of habit, students don't look for the alternatives.
There is probably no singular environment on the planet
than that of the university that offers a wider variety
of activities and choices for events and activities. Take
the time to try out at least one new activity each month.
Things that may not have seemed appealing or that you have
never done in the past may become intensely interesting
to you. Plays, concerts, films, and special interest groups/clubs
can add a great deal to your experience. Challenge yourself
to get involved.
- It is important to keep a reasonable level
of contact with your family. This varies from individual
to individual. College is a transition period in life where
you are beginning to develop the building blocks for "your
own nest". Consequently, the combination of changing
interest patterns, the very nature of education itself and
the distance will cause you to have less contact with your
family. Many students find it helpful to have ritualized
ways of being in touch with their family. A phone call at
a certain time of the week seems to work well for most students.
Decide on the appropriate number of visits for you to return
to your home environment and for people from home to come
and see you. Balancing developing new relationships with
maintaining the old is an art form. When communicating with
parents and family members, find some time to communicate
the kinds of changes that are taking place. This will help
others be more respectful of how you are growing as a person.
you may not find that people always accept the changes but
it nonetheless is important for you to communicate them.
- Career choice is a difficult area for students
to deal with. In many ways it is best to come to college
without a career decision cast in stone. There are offices,
individuals and programs to help you become more informed
about career decisions. Using career-testing instruments,
computerized programs and career resource centers are probably
the most common ways that individuals make good career decisions.
Talking with advisors and people in a variety of professions
also can be extremely helpful. Know that for the majority
of college students, several changes are made before a real
career direction is solidified. Even then, the majority
of people make a number of career shifts after they have
left college. Set aside some time to address your career
concerns and issues and see a professional at your university
to see what doors can be opened for you.
- Research shows that, in kindergarten through
college, people find attending school pleasurable for reasons
that are more social than academic. (Hopefully in college,
academics in itself at least competes with social relationships
as a reason for being there.) With this in mind, it is important
to set aside time to develop meaningful relationships in
college. They will enrich your experience in a variety of
ways. Having someone to exercise with, someone to grapple
with ideas as part of your intellectual academic experience
and someone to feel emotionally and, when appropriate, physically
connected to is important. In college, most people sooner
or later develop a series of acquaintanceships, friendships
and bonafide, loving relationships. Set time aside to define
and focus on these relationships. Know that people grow
into relationships in college and grow out of them. It is
the nature of this rapid period of transition. Again, there
are courses and counselors who can help you define healthy
aspects of relating and ways to improve your general communication
skills. The friendships that college students have generally
take on more meaning that friendships of previous periods.
Work to make these relationships a healthy and positive
part of your experience. Know that all relationships are
not smooth but there are ways of dealing with conflict while
maintaining friendships.
- It comes without saying that all individuals
who go to school have personal concerns and problems. Problems
are a part of life. The difficulty with personal issues
is that they can take a real drain on our total amount of
energy and really affect students from achieving their intellectual
potential. There comes a point when you need to talk with
someone else. Sometimes a friend or family member is sufficient
but research indicates that most college counseling services
serve close to 20% of any given population in a year. The
majority of those visits are for personal, emotional concerns.
You paid for this service through your tuition and student
fees. Use these trained psychologists to help you deal with
your issues. Concerns involving self-esteem, depression,
dating relationships, problems with parents, sexuality,
and alcohol-related issues predominate among college populations.
Sometimes taking that first step in making an appointment
can lead to a real road of positive change and transition.
Not only do you feel better, but your academic performance
and skill are enhanced.
- Get to know your faculty-teachers. Try to
find a time to visit each of your faculty members at least
once or twice during the semester. When you have problems
or concerns related to coursework, know that faculty members
do have posted hours and they are available to visit with
you. Most faculty members have a diversified background
above and beyond the course matter that you are taking.
They are a valuable resource to stimulate your ideas. They
also are excellent resources for networking as you move
through your college career. The time spent in one-to-one
conversation with a faculty member can be one of the most
positive aspects of your career. Sooner or later you will
find a faculty mentor who can and will open some very interesting
doors for you. Target a time and get yourself to go visit
those faculty members.
- There will be one particular faculty member
that you have or will have a very special relationship with.
This is your faculty advisor. Offices of academic advising
or your major will provide you with an advisor. It is important
that your advisor is someone you are comfortable working
with. Often students ask to have a particular advisor. If
and when this person is assigned, they are someone you should
visit at least twice a semester. They have information and
ideas that, as mentioned above, will open doors for you.
Advisors can make your life a lot easier while you are in
college. Don't be afraid to use them. Information they have
regarding course selection, the use of the catalogue or
other options such as scholarships or special programs are
usually things that they can and will communicate to you.
Advisors don't go looking for you-you need to go looking
for them. This is just one other little thing that can make
your college experience a bit better.
The above listed suggestions are only a few quick tips to
help you have a smooth and successful semester. Take a little
time to see what you can add to this particular list. To
discuss any of these issues you may want to make an appointment
to see a psychologist or counselor at your university.
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